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By Gayana Sarkisova November 8, So, you want to embark on a casual, no-strings attached relationship?

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Just sex, no emotional commitment; get in, get off, get out. Having a friend with benefits is like a dream come true to most, but that doesn't mean it can't necessarily turn into a nightmare if not handled correctly. This relationship is great in theory, but often fails miserably due to maintenance and overall Secfet. Being friends with benefits is a fun, mutually beneficial relationship where you don't have to take anyone out on a date, but you get to call them at one in the morning to hook up.

No fancy dinners, no roses, no gifts, no bullshit. It seems simple enough, so why do most of these relationships end terribly?

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Elite is here to give you the 10 commandments to making your friends stdings benefits relationship work. You shouldn't be expecting prince charming to come rescue you on a white horse; you should expect someone hung like a horse that makes you come hopefully.

This is the easiest rule to remember but the hardest rule to follow. It's understandable that you can eventually start to feel comfortable in this affectionate bond you've got going and feelings may jo to blossom. If that happens, bitch-slap yourself, sprinkle some cold water on your face, have a drink, and remember, there's a reason you didn't want to date this person to begin with.

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Other than that, don't ask how their day was, what they had for lunch, or make any kind of bullshit small talk via text because you're bored. Friends with benefits have strict guidelines and if they are crossed, it leaves room for confusion, awkwardness, and disappointment. So, you have to be extra careful. Grabbing a coffee the morning after? Quick bite to eat before a quickie?

Going out with someone who you have a strictly sexual relationship with leaves the door open for emotional attachment. Emotional attachment will then lead to feelings.

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Feelings will then lead to your humping buddy crying over a relationship that doesn't actually exist. Commandment 4: Thou Shall Not Introduce to Friends The biggest friend with benefits faux pas is introducing them to your friends and atachef. So, save yourself the headache and a week of soul searching and keep the relationship between you and your partner. Commandment 5: Thou Shall Keep the Door Open for New Relationships The reason these kinds of relationships rarely work out is because people close themselves off from finding someone they actually want to be with.

They think that because they already have someone they're sleeping with, they don't need to look for anyone else.

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A friend with benefits is aatached temporary fix and should never be misconstrued as a relationship. You have to be open to the possibility of meeting someone who you may actually want to spend some quality time with and eventually close your legs to the past. If you've met someone you like, have the courtesy to tell your sexual ificant other. On the other hand, if they have met someone they like, under no circumstances can you get jealous.

The ground rules were set from the beginning: sex and nothing more. You should be able to be emotionally unattached to a friend with benefits if you follow the commandments above and therefore have no problem making a clean break from one another. A back-up is a friend you probably have never strinvs with.

You bring Secget to family functions, birthdays, office parties, etc. This person is most likely your best friend of the opposite sex or same, whatever floats your boat.

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A back-up is someone you may eventually end up with because everyone in your life already loves and accepts them. Never, ever, confuse a back-up for a friend with benefits.

Back-ups are out there for everyone to see but, as we established before, friends with benefits are for your eyes only. The beauty of a stirngs with benefits is that normal rules don't apply. You don't have to cuddle afterwards or spend the night, and you can tell the person what you like and how you like it and no feelings should ever get hurt.

This is a no holds barred relationship, get yours and make sure you're always getting it good. Don't get me wrong, plenty of us can get drunk and hook up with a person who is actually a good friend.

The trick is to not let that one hook up lead into a full blown friend with benefits relationship. People who were actually friends before strinsg an underlying emotional attachment to one another and that may lead to a hot mess of a relationship. Gayana Sarkisova Elite.